Tackling Bullying Crucial Message “It’s Time for Parents to Act ! “

In a poignant plea for change, Marjorie Ayen, an esteemed Anti-Bullying Consultant, urged parents to reflect deeply on their roles in the fight against bullying. “We must take each case of bullying seriously,” she asserted with unwavering conviction. “Bullying is a form of violence that can leave a lasting mark on its victims.

In many instances, the roots of bullying can sprout within the very walls of our homes, as children may bully their siblings—an insidious behaviour known as sibling bullying.”

Ayen emphasised the crucial role that parents play in guiding and monitoring their children’s behaviour.

She warned that a child who exhibits bullying tendencies at home is likely to continue such behaviour at school.

Conversely, those who suffer bullying in the home may retaliate by bullying peers in their educational environment.

“Childhood exposure to violence, such as domestic abuse, often results in the replication of that violence in schools,” she explained, underscoring the need for parents to take responsibility for their children’s actions.

According to Ayen, it is essential that parents not only intervene but also equip their children with the tools to protect themselves from bullying.

“Teaching children to speak up when they are hurt, or encouraging them to take self-defence classes like karate, can be empowering.”

She highlighted the importance of recognising the subtle yet serious signs of a child suffering in silence from bullying.

Symptoms may manifest as chronic stomach or headaches, fevers, self-harm, disrupted sleep or eating patterns, unexplained bruises, or reports of stolen belongings—all clear indicators that intervention is needed.

Moreover, Ayen insisted that teachers and support staff must be actively trained to handle cases of bullying effectively.

“Educators must be equipped with strategies that foster empathy among perpetrators, preventing a cycle of abuse.

One approach, known as the ‘Shared Concern’ method introduced by Anatol Pikas, could be instrumental in transforming the behaviours of young bullies.”

She advocates for the establishment of an anonymous online reporting system to provide victims with a safe avenue to disclose their experiences.

In her quest for change, Ayen stressed the importance of educational initiatives focused on empathy, urging schools to foster an environment where bystanders feel empowered to report bullying.

“Silence cannot be tolerated; students must be assured that there will be consequences for any reprisals against those who come forward to speak out against bullying.”

Ayen believed that every school should have a full-time psychologist on staff.

“A bully can be redirected and rehabilitated if they receive appropriate support; regular psychological follow-up is key.

It is essential that school leadership communicates firmly with the bully while reinforcing the importance of empathy.

We must remember, bullying is not merely a social issue—under Article 26 of the Children’s Act (2020), it is a criminal offence.”

In her passionate exploration of bullying, Ayen highlighted the necessity of making anti-bullying efforts visible.

“Victims should never suffer in isolation; they must be encouraged to speak out about their experiences.

However, it is vital to choose confidants carefully.

Avoid those who trivialise bullying or inadvertently encourage self-harm—selecting friends wisely is critical.”

The ramifications of bullying can devastate a victim’s mental health.

“It can lead to depression, anxiety, panic attacks, or even suicidal thoughts. It is essential to understand that bullying does not directly cause suicide;

typically, it is intertwined with other factors, such as feelings of hopelessness, a history of mental health struggles, or a lack of supportive relationships.”

Ayen’s message rings clear: we must support victims, urge them to break their silence, and raise awareness throughout our communities to combat the scourge of bullying.

It is time for both parents and educators to take a stand against this insidious epidemic, for the sake of our children and their future.

Source: Defi Media